Shame? I Don't Know Her - Mug

from CA$15.99

This mug playfully reclaims a serious idea: many of the rules we carry inside about who we should be—what’s acceptable, lovable, or “normal”—were never designed with queer lives in mind. These inner rules often show up as shame, self-criticism, or the feeling of being “too much” or “not enough.”

To queer the superego is to question those inherited standards. It’s about loosening the grip of harsh inner voices shaped by family, culture, religion, gender norms, and systems that privilege conformity. Across therapeutic traditions, there’s a shared understanding that healing involves transforming shame into self-compassion, curiosity, and agency.

This mug is both a wink and a declaration. It honors the work of unlearning internalized judgments and choosing values that affirm pleasure, authenticity, and relational safety. Whether you’re sipping coffee before a long day, bringing humor into a therapy space, or gifting it to someone doing their own inner work, it offers a daily reminder.

Product Features:
- Microwave-safe for quick reheats
- Dishwasher-safe for easy cleanup
- Vibrant, long-lasting color printing
- Glossy white ceramic with comfortable C-handle
- Available in 11oz and 15oz;
- Lead and BPA-free

Care Instructions:
- Clean in dishwasher or wash by hand with warm water and dish soap.

 11oz15oz
Height, cm9.5011.70
Diameter, cm8.008.70

 

 

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This mug playfully reclaims a serious idea: many of the rules we carry inside about who we should be—what’s acceptable, lovable, or “normal”—were never designed with queer lives in mind. These inner rules often show up as shame, self-criticism, or the feeling of being “too much” or “not enough.”

To queer the superego is to question those inherited standards. It’s about loosening the grip of harsh inner voices shaped by family, culture, religion, gender norms, and systems that privilege conformity. Across therapeutic traditions, there’s a shared understanding that healing involves transforming shame into self-compassion, curiosity, and agency.

This mug is both a wink and a declaration. It honors the work of unlearning internalized judgments and choosing values that affirm pleasure, authenticity, and relational safety. Whether you’re sipping coffee before a long day, bringing humor into a therapy space, or gifting it to someone doing their own inner work, it offers a daily reminder.

Product Features:
- Microwave-safe for quick reheats
- Dishwasher-safe for easy cleanup
- Vibrant, long-lasting color printing
- Glossy white ceramic with comfortable C-handle
- Available in 11oz and 15oz;
- Lead and BPA-free

Care Instructions:
- Clean in dishwasher or wash by hand with warm water and dish soap.

 11oz15oz
Height, cm9.5011.70
Diameter, cm8.008.70